In any romantic relationship, the journey of maintaining and nurturing the bond requires effort, understanding, and a dash of wisdom. For men, navigating how to be a better partner—whether as a boyfriend, fiancé, or husband—can often feel like uncharted territory. However, the keys to a successful and loving relationship are simpler than one might think. This article offers ten straightforward, yet powerful ways to enhance your relationship, ensuring you love her well and become not just a good partner, but a great one. From daily gestures of kindness to foundational principles of respect and support, here’s how you can deepen your connection and show genuine love and appreciation.
10 Easy Ways to Love Her Well and Be a Better Boyfriend, Fiancé or Husband
1. Validate her feelings. Ask how she feels instead of assuming. You don’t have to validate drama but let her vent, listen, and hug before you try to explain or fix it away.
2. Show her off. It may seem small to you but even posting a photo on Instagram or taking us out with the boys shows that you’re proud of us and melts our hearts.
3. Pick up your stuff off the floor (husbands!). In other words, do the little things and order your private world. Don’t clock out when you come home, be responsible.
4. Communicate your intentions. In other words, don’t leave her guessing how you feel or what you intend with the relationship. You’re going to have to be a little vulnerable at times, and that is not a weakness.
5. Put yourself second. Biblical leadership is not dominance, it’s service. Love her as Christ loves and as you love your own self. Pray for her and set your pride aside.
6. Hold her accountable. While it’s important to validate her feelings, love her enough to also point her to Truth.