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10 Easy Ways to Love Her Well and Be a Better Boyfriend, Fiancé or Husband

In any romantic relationship, the journey of maintaining and nurturing the bond requires effort, understanding, and a dash of wisdom. For men, navigating how to be a better partner—whether as a boyfriend, fiancé, or husband—can often feel like uncharted territory. However, the keys to a successful and loving relationship are simpler than one might think. This article offers ten straightforward, yet powerful ways to enhance your relationship, ensuring you love her well and become not just a good partner, but a great one. From daily gestures of kindness to foundational principles of respect and support, here’s how you can deepen your connection and show genuine love and appreciation.

10 Easy Ways to Love Her Well and Be a Better Boyfriend, Fiancé or Husband

1. Validate her feelings. Ask how she feels instead of assuming. You don’t have to validate drama but let her vent, listen, and hug before you try to explain or fix it away.

2. Show her off. It may seem small to you but even posting a photo on Instagram or taking us out with the boys shows that you’re proud of us and melts our hearts.

3. Pick up your stuff off the floor (husbands!). In other words, do the little things and order your private world. Don’t clock out when you come home, be responsible.

4. Communicate your intentions. In other words, don’t leave her guessing how you feel or what you intend with the relationship. You’re going to have to be a little vulnerable at times, and that is not a weakness.

5. Put yourself second. Biblical leadership is not dominance, it’s service. Love her as Christ loves and as you love your own self. Pray for her and set your pride aside.

6. Hold her accountable. While it’s important to validate her feelings, love her enough to also point her to Truth.

7. Build her up. Women constantly wonder how they measure up to others, and the ones that seem the most put together are often the most insecure. Remind her not only of her outer beauty but of the strong character traits and gifts she has.

8. Be spontaneous. We love when you take initiative and just plan a date. Even if she doesn’t love the activity you choose, she will love that you took initiative.

9. Stand for what’s right. Don’t be fearful of what others think or try to blend in if blending in isn’t right. You love your woman and your God best when you have the confidence to take a stand.

10. Take care of yourself and work hard. When you take care of your health (without being vain about it) and have a strong work ethic, it shows a lot about your priorities. And it shows that you care about her. If you don’t take care of yourself or slack on the small things, it’s hard to take care of someone else because eventually that lack of care will catch up with you—and if you get married (or already are), it’ll fall on her shoulders.

So, simply put: you don’t need to be Prince Charming. You simply need to be disciplined but also dedicated, sensitive, and intentional enough to lead and love like Jesus–especially in the little things.

Jordan Lee
Jordan Leehttp://thesoulscripts.com/
Jordan Lee is the creative voice behind the blog, The SoulScripts. She is passionate about seeing women set free by the love of Christ and works to bring them to that through sharing real, raw, and relatable stories and anecdotes with a creative spin. She launched her site in 2015 on a simple premise — to get real, to sort through the lies women believe, and to encourage readers in Truth while offering touches of comic relief along the way. She especially loves to keep it real by speaking openly into real-life struggles and offer encouragement through storytelling because she believes that our stories are the most unifying thing we have. The messy, broken, and imperfect parts of life are the threads that weave us together, reminding us that we are truly not alone. She understands the reality that we all have imperfections, brokenness, and pieces of our lives we’d rather not show. She recently published her first book, WholeheARTed: A Coloring Book Devotional, released this past spring. It is available for purchase via Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Lifeway, and more. When she isn’t writing, you can find her with a coffee in hand as she dives into the Word, jogging through town, and traveling the globe with her husband. You can get to know her more on Facebook, Twitter,or Instagram.

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