One of my favorite things to ask little kids is whether or not they have a “boyfriend” or “girlfriend.” Of course, it’s not because I think a six-year-old should be embarking on romantic journeys before losing their first tooth. I just love love love the shy, giggly and innocently-honest responses that almost every small child will give in regards to that question.
As parents, it’s our responsibility to raise up the next generation of respectful, honest and caring men and women. As Zowiie Williams learned last week, it starts with these childhood friendships.
After her son Callum broke up with his “girlfriend” at school, Zowiie learned that he did so at the advice of another boy telling him what to say and do. Callum’s delivery was less than kind to the little girl, and according to Yahoo, he even included some inappropriate language.
Heated break-ups on the playground are no joke for these six-year-olds.
“When your son hurts a girl’s feelings, it’s our job as parents to make him understand how saying things out of anger [and] upset can make other[s] feel,” Zowiie wrote on Facebook.
Zowiie Williams
“Yesterday I was very disappointed to find out he had upset his special little lady due to another boy mate telling him what he should say [and] do. So much so that I felt the need to have quite a good talk with him.”
After learning the girl had left school feeling very upset, Zowiie and Callum’s chat led to him making the decision on his own to apologize.
“Today he is marching into school with flowers and an apology because I feel that we need to teach boys the importance of how they should react to certain situations.”
Zowiie Williams
Zowiie says the flowers were Callum’s idea, but not one that she let him get away with lightly.