Have you ever listened to a conversation in your small group or Bible study and knew that you should keep your opinion to yourself? Maybe the topic revolved around a social problem or political candidate and you knew that your contrary point of view would go over like a BLT at a bar mitzvah. Meanwhile, you sit there sad and frustrated because you know your viewpoint could add valuable perspective to the topic — but it’s more trouble than it’s worth. And in the middle of this group of people, you just feel so lonely. Have you ever wondered about the signs of religious brainwashing?
As a writer, I’m often sharing thoughts that I know would annoy people in my small conservative church. I’ve always consoled myself with the fact that no one at church reads anything I write anyway. But that changed one day after a guy brought up a touchy subject to me multiple times, and I realized that he had read one of my posts, got irritated, and was trying to covertly/politely re-educate me. Luckily, I had enough sense not to take the bait — but I walked away feeling a little vulnerable and more hesitant to speak up.
The majority isn’t always right—but they sure think they are.
When you think about it, the entire New Testament tells the story of a nation (the Israelites) who believes that they completely understand the scriptures, who God is, and what he requires of them. When a prophet (who turns out to be God himself) shows up on the scene to tell them otherwise, they kill him — having complete and utter confidence that they’re correct in their theology and practice.
Two thousand years later, the church often takes the same imperious position that the Pharisees and Sadducees shared. “We have complete confidence that [there are] no more questions without definitive answers.” Because many Christians exist within a bubble that reverberates our own positions and ideas, they sometimes miss the signs of religious brainwashing. They take their imagined unanimity as confirmation that they’re right. Truth is on their side.
A good example of this phenomenon came up in a political discussion I had yesterday. Someone said to me, “I know the media is lying about Trump’s low popularity. As I drive around our community, all I see are Trump signs.” This statement perfectly sums up the problem of perspective. This person and I live in a fairly small county, and political yard signs in a rural setting are not the ideal way to judge the health of a political candidate … but in the end, we believe what we see (especially when it confirms what we believe).
The influence of our culture
If we’re raised in a culture that tells us that a particular biblical interpretation or political position aligns with God’s point of view, we accept it. That position is further solidified by being around others who share the same ideas. Of course, it’s completely natural to immediately dismiss an unfamiliar or contrary idea — even if it’s right. It takes a lot of maturity and self-discipline to hear something contrary and think, “Hold on, let me hear this out.”
In the moment when we recognize that we don’t agree with our community, we’re faced with a choice. Do we speak up or do we keep it to ourselves? The choice isn’t as easy as it seems. Sometimes we avoid speaking up because we want to ignore the signs of religious brainwashing. But if we learned anything from the gospels, it’s that in a blind world, the person with sight is thought to be insane.
Could it be possible to maintain Christian unity despite disagreement over significant issues? Was Jesus just being naïve when he prayed for Christians in John 17:20–21
“I do not ask for these only, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me.”
Signs of Religious Brainwashing
Groupthink isn’t specific to Christianity. All cultural and philosophically aligned groups expect a certain amount of assimilation from its members. Any organized group might consider the signs of religious brainwashing. We shouldn’t just accept all the groupthink as a characteristic of our faith. We should approach each other with a sense of humility, and hold our truths with both a sense of conviction and open hearts. After all, if Jesus wanted to convict you that your opinion was mistaken, how would he do it? Probably through the conviction of your brother or sister…
To silence dissenting opinions — whether intentionally or not — is to doom ourselves (or them) to holding incorrect assumptions, interpretations, and theologies, and it’s one of the signs of religious brainwashing.
Has your church has slipped into an unhealthy and dangerous form of groupthink? Here are eight signs of religious brainwashing from your church, group, or community.
1. Debate or difference of opinion is discouraged
It’s obvious the minute it happens. You respond to a discussion with [an] alternative view and you can almost hear the record scratch as everything goes silent. Suddenly, all eyes are on you. With a word or two, you’re corrected, and it’s quite apparent that there will be no more discussion on this topic.
2. Conformity is encouraged as a virtue
If you’re an evangelical that’s ever attended a Jewish Torah study group, your mind, like mine, was probably blown. I’ve been a couple of times and walked away wishing that Christian studies were similar.