It’s no secret that while technology has provided us with communication superpowers that we couldn’t have even dreamed of 30 years ago, it also has its pitfalls. Technology, particularly our phones, has made us more connected and disconnected than ever.
I mean, how many times have you seen a couple out for dinner, and at least one or both of them are scrolling through their iPhones rather than engaging in meaningful, face-to-face communication?
And the same goes when we’re trying to spend quality time with our kids. How many times has a wonderful opportunity to play with your children in the summer sun passed because you’re occupied with scrolling through your newsfeed?
The DadMum blogger brought this sobering lesson to light in a viral post where he challenges parents to not let your phones interfere with your parenting.
Through his own experiences, he relays just how refreshing a “time out” from that device glued to our hands can be.
Read his post below:
“Don’t let your phone make you bad parents.
I was home alone with the boys and was on Facebook trying to keep up with the world.
Knox came up and stood in front of me. I didn’t even notice him at first but he was clearly trying to get my attention. He was trying to show me one of his cars. I didn’t even look up from my phone when I replied “wow mate that’s a cool one”. He continued to stand in front of me. He started saying “Hi”. I said “Hi” back at him a few times but he didn’t stop. He got another toy and kept trying to get my attention.