If you’re in a dry season of your marriage, you’ve more than likely thought about any number of the following:
What if I married one of my ex’s instead of my spouse?
What would life be like with the man or woman at work? (or at the gym? Church? Etc.)
What if I had married someone with more of the same recreational interests as me?
If only I hadn’t felt pressure from my family to get married.
If only I hadn’t gotten married so young.
If only I hadn’t gotten my wife pregnant, I could have left her.
If only my spouse gave me compliments the way other men or women do.
If only my spouse had more of a sex drive.
If only I had married someone who was more attractive.
If only I had married someone who kept themselves in better shape.
If only I was single so I could flirt with and pursue this other man or woman.
If only I was single so I could manage my house, schedule, and finances the way I want.