To the Mama Totally Exhausted From Your Husband’s Late Nights at Work

The strain of being a stay-at-home mom with a husband who works long hours can not be underestimated. Being the cook, maid, taxi cab driver, nurser of wounds and wiper away of tears can certainly become exhausting when you’re doing it all alone. To top it off, getting to spend only an hour with your husband at the end of a long day just adds fuel to the fire and frustration.

Nobody can exemplify this tension quite like Katie Spence Pughe whose Facebook post recently went viral. As she vented about her exhaustion and irritation over her husband’s long days at work, she came to a striking realization that is now piercing the hearts of moms everywhere. It reads:

I snapped this picture the other night at the end of a long day. I was tired. I was irritated. I had sent my husband a text telling him that I knew it wouldn’t make a difference, but I wanted him to know that I was feeling fed up with how much he works and with all that I have to do everyday by myself. The full time job, cooking dinner, bathing kids, weekend trips without him, keeping up a home, you name it I was resenting it. I have to have these little moments once (ok several times) throughout planting and harvest season.

Then this happened. He came in, fixed his plate and sat down to eat all alone. He was tired. He was hot. He was exhausted. Rather than complain, he said he was sorry I was tired and felt that way. Charlotte joined him and talked his head off and even ate most of his dinner.

Facebook/Katie Spence Pugh

He didn’t complain. He shared, and it hit me. Do I wish that we saw him more than an hour or so a day? Yes. But, the love he has for his craft is something to envy. Farmers work in a thankless profession. It’s always non GMO this and organic that, and let’s not even talk about the stress from Mother Nature.

This is a man who is working to uphold 4 generations of blood sweat and tears and showing his children the value of hard work and discipline. So while I felt frustrated, I really should have felt thankful. I got to sit down to dinner and hear all the stories from the day with the kids. I got to give them a bath and hear their squeals and giggles. I got to snuggle and love on them for 3 hours more than he did. He is the one sacrificing, not me. We will keep on keeping on until the next rainy day when we get a few extra hours with our hard worker.

In the meantime, the next time you slip into that comfy cotton shirt or eat delicious farm fresh food, thank a farmer. Where would we be without them?

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