Davey’s journey through grief eventually led him to consider the possibility of finding love again. It was not a decision he took lightly. When he met Christi, a woman who would later become his wife, he was struck by how closely her life was intertwined with his own tragic story. Christi’s stepfather was a chaplain who regularly visited the three men responsible for Amanda’s death in prison. Despite the initial shock of this connection, Davey and Christi built a life together, blending their families and finding a way to honor Amanda’s memory while moving forward.
Forgiveness has been central to Davey’s healing process. Although he has not spoken to the men who killed his wife since their sentencing, he wishes them no ill will. “I would tell them that this doesn’t have to be the end of their story,” Davey says. He hopes that they will find a way to change, not just their behavior, but their hearts. Davey’s desire is for them to transform their lives and contribute positively to society, ensuring that Amanda’s death is not in vain.
Davey Blackburn’s story is one of profound loss, but it is also one of resilience, faith, and the power of forgiveness. His journey reminds us that even in the darkest of times, there is hope for healing, and that forgiveness, while difficult, is essential for moving forward. As he continues to rebuild his life and guide his children through their grief, Davey’s message is clear: tragedy does not have to define us, and even the deepest pain can be transformed into a force for good.
You can learn more about Davey’s journey through grief, healing, and forgiveness in his new book: “Nothing is Wasted,” available now.
