“‘Relax, it’s just an empty toilet roll.’
I can’t relax, because to me it’s so much more.
I’m the person in this house that writes the lists, knows the dates of the dress-up days and all the birthdays. I know the toys that the kids and their friends are into and always know the times and locations of the parties.
I’m the person who books the dentist, remembers the load of washing that needs to be hung out and updates the calendar.