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The ‘Sandwich Generation’: Life Between Raising Children and Caring for Aging Parents

Support Groups for Caregivers

One of the consistent themes in caregiver research is isolation. Online and local support groups can help caregivers process exhaustion, grief, resentment, and guilt without shame.

Useful communities include:

  • caregiver support groups through local churches
  • hospital-sponsored caregiver groups
  • condition-specific groups (Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s, cancer caregiving)
  • online forums like Reddit caregiver communities where caregivers openly discuss burnout and practical survival strategies

Financial Planning Professionals Who Specialize in Elder Care

Many financial planners now specialize in multigenerational financial planning.

These advisors can help families navigate:

  • long-term care insurance
  • Medicaid planning
  • estate planning
  • power of attorney documents
  • protecting retirement savings while caregiving

This matters because many sandwich-generation caregivers unintentionally damage their own retirement stability while supporting both children and parents simultaneously.

Faith-Based Caregiving Ministries

Many churches now offer caregiver ministries, meal trains, visitation teams, transportation help, or respite volunteers.

For Christian women especially, finding a church community that offers practical—not merely inspirational—support can make an enormous difference.

Helpful questions to ask:

  • Does the church offer respite help?
  • Are there caregiver support groups?
  • Are meals available during crises?
  • Is counseling available for caregiver stress?

Therapy for Caregiver Burnout

Mental-health professionals increasingly recognize caregiving strain as a serious emotional health issue, especially for midlife women balancing multiple generations.

Therapy can help caregivers process:

  • anticipatory grief
  • chronic stress
  • resentment and guilt
  • marital strain
  • emotional exhaustion

Experts increasingly warn that burnout among caregivers is rising significantly.

Hannah Bartz
Hannah Bartz
Hannah Bartz is a writer and editor living in New Mexico. She covers faith, hobbies, and parenting.

‘I Cried Last Night as I Asked My Husband if He Was Tired of Me. Because I’m Tired of Me Some Days.’

"Raising babies is hard. But I think the hardest is losing yourself. Life is flying by, and you feel lost in the middle of it."

Friend Says “Of All People, You Should Get Why Someone Would Abort a Cleft Baby”—Dad’s Reply Is Perfect

"My ‘friend’ said, ‘Come on, of all people, you should get why someone would want to abort a cleft baby.’ That shocked me. Why would he think that?"

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He asked her just one question every single morning. Two weeks later, he asked the same question, and her eyes welled up with tears...