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The Key to a Strong Marriage? Sacrifice.

Each of these lessons boils down to one biblical truth:

Marriage isn’t about you. It’s about laying yourself down for someone else.

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”John 15:13

But laying down your life doesn’t always mean dying—sometimes, it means dying to self.

Love is choosing to sacrifice your wants, needs, and comfort for your spouse—just as Christ sacrificed for us.

God’s blueprint for love is clear:

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”1 Corinthians 13:4-7


So, the next time you wonder if you’re a good spouse, remember this:

Love is not about what you get—it’s about what you give.
Sacrifice is the foundation of true love.
A strong marriage isn’t built overnight—it’s built daily.

Choose to love. Choose to serve. Choose to build a marriage that lasts.

20 Things My Divorce Taught Me About Marriage

Years ago, a newly divorced Gerald Rogers took to Facebook to reflect on what he wishes he would have known before it was too late. He admits there were a lot of things he could have done differently to save his marriage, and he openly shared the self-effacing letter in the most humble and real way.

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