7. Unscheduled Time Together
Just like you can’t sit down with your 5-year-old for two hours on Saturday and say “Ready, go! Quality time starts now!” you also can’t expect your spouse to feel loved when you have to pencil them into your busy schedule. Your relationship needs unscheduled time to wake up late, explore, be spontaneous, laugh and have an impromptu dance party. Again, stop doing all those other “good things” so you can give your relationship the fuel it needs.
