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Marriage Is Not About You; Divorce Is All About You

Let’s talk about how marriage is not all about you, but divorce is.

The prophet Malachi is proof that there truly is nothing new under the sun. In the prophecy that bears his name, he charged the religious people of his day (the groups that would later become the Pharisees) with a trait that is uncomfortably common in the church today.

Malachi told the Israelites that they were religious … but self-centered in their family lives. This was demonstrated by their behavior in marriage: “The man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the LORD, the God of Israel, covers his garment with injustice” (2:16 CSB).

Here’s what was happening: Many of the Jewish men had taken a fancy to foreign women, who worshipped other gods, and they were marrying them instead of godly Hebrew women. Some were even divorcing the wives of their youth to marry these women.

God confronts them in two ways. “First of all,” he says, “your marriage was a covenant you made before me, and it was supposed to reflect my love. Second, one of my primary intentions in your marriage was to raise up godly children” (cf. Malachi 2:15).

But the Israelites had started to look at marriage as if it were all about them and their wants and desires.

In Malachi’s day, as in ours, divorce was not usually the problem; it’s the fruit of the problem. The root is a life that is self-centered. The problem is that people go into marriage looking for someone to complete them or make them happy, and when their spouse quits doing that or gets difficult to live with or they meet someone they think might do it better for them, they get divorced.

This self-centered approach to marriage even affects how a lot of people think about children. They think of in terms of what they want and what will add enjoyment to their lives. Most people still want a kid or two in our day. But as our society has gotten more self-centered, we’ve tended to have less children. After all, kids are inconvenient. They make life messy. They’re expensive. (Veronica and I sometimes refer to our kids by names like “Beach House” and “Corvette Collection” because of how much they cost us each year.)

I get it; kids are tough. But if the only purpose we have for our children is accessorizing our lives, we’ve gone terribly off course. One of God’s primary purposes for marriage is producing godly offspring for the purpose of his kingdom. If we’re more concerned with our standard of life than God’s intentions for our family, Malachi has a harsh word for us.

J.D. Greear
J.D. Greearhttp://jdgreear.com
J.D. Greear is the pastor of The Summit Church, in Raleigh-Durham, NC and author of Gaining by Losing: Why the Future Belongs to Churches That Send (2015), Gospel: Recovering the Power that Made Christianity Revolutionary (2011), Stop Asking Jesus into Your Heart: How to Know for Sure You Are Saved (2013), and Jesus, Continued…: Why the Spirit Inside You Is Better Than Jesus Beside You (2014). See more from Pastor J.D. on Facebook.

Kevin Bacon Surprises Students at High School Where ‘Footloose’ Was Filmed — Announces He’s Visiting Them for Prom

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