It’s no surprise that we live in a society that stereotypes gender roles. Though women have come a long way in the world of business, leadership, ministry and beyond, the old mindset of a “woman’s work is in the home” is undoubtedly still clung to by some…one of those being dad blogger Clint Edward’s own mother.
On his Facebook page, “No Idea What I’m Doing: A Daddy Blog,” Clint speaks candidly with his followers about a phone conversation he recently had with his mom about his wife’s “tidiness” — or lack thereof.
“Doesn’t it bother you that Mel won’t keep a cleaner house?” she asked.
While Clint knew her intent was not to be condescending or hurtful, he couldn’t help but be taken aback a bit.
“I didn’t really know how to respond to my mother, so I floundered,” he said during an awkward pause in conversation. “I never really know what to say in moments like this.”
But after carefully considering how to respond in a truthful way that would respect the two women he loved most in this world, it was Clint’s mother who was left speechless.
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After being picked up by Love What Matters, the daddy blogger‘s simple but powerful reply has since been shared thousands of times by couples who can relate all too well:
A few weeks ago I was chatting with my mother over the phone when she said, “Doesn’t it bother you that Mel won’t keep a cleaner house?” It was a Saturday. I was working on the dishes. I honestly didn’t know what to say. My mother didn’t say it in an antagonist way or anything. It was more out of curiosity.
She’d obviously noticed that our home wasn’t all that tidy. Not that it was only Mel’s job to clean it. I see our marriage as a partnership, so cleaning is as much my responsibility as it is hers. I will admit, though, there is often kid clutter, dishes in the sink, and half finished art projects on the counters. I will also admit, it isn’t as clean as my mother’s home, but that doesn’t bother me. In fact, I don’t really think about that at all.