All that to say, I see Clarke’s point, but I think I’ll keep taking party gifts on a case-by-case basis.
Instagram is Divided on Mom’s Birthday Gift Rule
Surprisingly, Clarke’s Instagram reel on the topic has been viewed over 4 million times. Who knew this was such a hot topic? Not surprisingly, the people of the Internet have a LOT to say about kids’ birthday gifts, both positive and negative. Commenters were definitely divided.
“Love this so hard!” says one commenter. This was immediately followed by “Oh, like it’s so hard to go buy a present for a child this is so dumb.”
Other commenters took care to explain their opinions, and some like me, felt divided.
“As the recipient I really like it, said one commenter, “but as a parent it’s missing an opportunity to reach kids how to be thoughtful gift givers. My kids spend time picking out something their friend will enjoy. I don’t allow the plasticy [sic] junk, though. The latest gifts were legos and a cute drawing pad with sparkle gel pens. All things I’d be happy to have in my own home.”
“So many comments about kids being disappointed – I don’t think these kind of primary school age children are keeping tabs on # who bought what and awarding points – unlike some parents. In addition, these are often large parties. Almost all of our kids have more toys than they could ever need already – who needs the novelty of opening something new for it to be enjoyed for about 10 mins,” said another commenter.
Many other parents said they do the same thing, but with gift cards to the cinema or a specific store. I have to admit, there is a certain appeal about the simplification of the gift-buying process.
So, what do you think? Super-thoughtful, super-simple, or “it depends”? What’s your gift-giving strategy for all the kids’ parties you are invited to?
