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Why I’m Not Teaching My Kids to Have Self-Confidence

Godly Self-Confidence Truth #2: 

I know all of your thoughts and I know every part of you. Don’t be afraid to share your heart with me. (Psalm 139:1)

One of the enemy’s most insidious tactics is to tell our kids that they’ve made too many mistakes to be close to God. He wants to destroy our kids’ confidence by somehow convincing them that they are irreparably flawed.

And yet, God tells us over and over in His word that He has perfectly formed us and that he knows every aspect of our lives (the good, the bad and the ugly). He is not afraid of our mistakes and in fact, wants us to share them with Him as [a] means to grow closer!

Friends, we must teach our kids that depending on God — trusting Him to love us through all our fears and mistakes — is how to have self-confidence that weathers any situation.

Godly Self-Confidence Truth #3:

You were handmade by me — perfectly crafted by my hands — and I call my creation of you “marvelous.” (Psalm 139:14)

Society has done an excellent job of portraying how we “should” look. We’re told daily what’s trending and what’s not. Magazine covers proclaim what clothing size is the “right” one in order to fit in and to be accepted.

From an early age, our kids are taught how to have self-confidence based on how they look. 

Of course, as women, you and I know how destructive self-image issues can be to our self-confidence! So imagine how incredibly powerful it would be if our children could grow up knowing that they are perfectly crafted by an awesome creator.

Godly Self-Confidence Truth #4:

Even when things are hard, let my deep love for you remind you that I will be there to help you through it. (Isaiah 43:2)

Our family is currently going through a difficult trial and, let me tell you, being able to depend on Christ through this challenging time is what has kept our family sane.

If we were depending on our self-confidence, my husband and I would be overwhelmed with doubts and uncertainty. I’m so grateful that God has proven over and over in my life that He is dependable and faithful, and that challenging life seasons are an opportunity for me to demonstrate to my kids how to grow deeper in self-confidence based on God’s promises.

Trials are also an awesome way to teach kids about perseverance!

P.S. Love these scriptures and want an easy, practical way for kids to understand biblical, godly confidence? Download this free 5Rs Bible Study Method™ bookmark so that your kids can easily understand and apply these biblical truths to their lives.

Alicia Michelle
Alicia Michelle
Author, speaker and blogger at YourVibrantFamily.com, is passionate about helping women discover their beautifully imperfect journey through parenting, marriage, homeschooling, faith and homemaking. She’s also happily married homeschool mom of four curious and amazing kids who keep her on her toes!

He’d Take a Bullet for Her and at 1:50 You Won’t Doubt Him a Bit

This sister and brother duo have the most beautiful relationship in the world. When he says his life would be nothing without his little sister, you'll be moved to tears.

This 100-Year-Old Lady Is the Only Person Who Can Say This and Get Away with It

Dorothy Custer is the definition of gumption. Listen to her tell the story of how she met her husband, then at 2:10 she reveals the secret to long life (btw, it's the cutest thing ever).

You May Never See Another Couple Full of Christ-Like Love Like This

When Larissa met Ian at college in 2005, she never dreamed she'd one day be his wife ... and his caretaker. After a tragic accident left Ian without the ability to speak, walk or care for himself, she did what any woman in love would do: she married him.