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I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: parenting kids in the digital age is hard. It’s also full of pitfalls that most of us couldn’t have imagined when we first considered starting a family. Thanks to the advent of artificial intelligence, those pitfalls are getting steeper and deeper, and many parents may want to consider how they share family photos online.

A terrifying new ad by telecommunications company Deutsche Telekom is driving this point home in a super-dramatic way. The ad definitely uses “shock value,” to get its message across, but sometimes you have to shock people into admitting reality. Change is hard: none of us wants to admit that our past actions no longer work in the present, but here we are. As the ad points out, just about anyone with access to our kids’ photographs can use AI to steal their identities or worse, either now or in the future.

As an example, the haunting ad portrays the story of Ella, a nine-year-old girl whose parents have shared plenty of innocent photos of her online. We see how AI is used to create an older, completely deepfaked Ella based on just one photo of her from age nine. The fake adult Ella moves and talks just like a real person, has a passport and a credit history, and is pretty much indistinguishable from an actual human adult. She tells her horrified parents that their uninhibited postings of her online when she was a child has had some unimaginable consequences thanks to AI and internet strangers. They are some of the worst outcomes a parent can imagine, from identity theft to the creation of child sex abuse material.

The ad was definitely made to terrify parents, which I don’t love, but its message is true: we all need to be much more careful about our online images than we have been. It mentions that most parents have online social media “friends” that they don’t actually know in real life, and that in my opinion is one of the first things that needs to change that we can easily change ourselves. Locking down accounts and making them private won’t solve all the security risks of living life online, but it does make you less accessible, and every little bit helps.

People with bad intentions can (and do!) even use AI to fake a loved one’s voice and make fake ransom calls, so although it may seem crazy, having a code word with your family members to verify identity if they are ever in trouble is another thing we all need to consider. No parent is capable of being calm when they get a phone call with their distressed child’s voice on the other end. This is why having a plan in place before hand is key. Being able to say, “Baby, just tell me our family password,” before you give in to any ransom demands could save your family a ton of heartache if AI is involved.

As the mom of one young adult, a teen, and a tween, I am not sure what to think. Do I go back and delete every photo from when I first got Facebook in 2008? Or do I just move forward more cautiously from here on out? One thing I do know is that if I had it to do all over again, I would be more careful. Hindsight is, after all, 20/20.

If nothing else, grown-up fake digital Ella gives parents of minors these days a lot to think about. Maybe we didn’t know what we were doing then, but now we do. We can’t un-know it, and we need to move forward with the knowledge that the digital footprint WE create for our children could haunt THEM for years to come.

Jenny Rapson
Jenny Rapsonhttp://www.foreverymom.com
Jenny Rapson is a wife and mom of three from Ohio and the editor of For Every Mom. You can also find her alternately griping and gushing about her kids at her own blog, Mommin' It Up. You can email her at jrapson@outreach.com, or follow her on Twitter.

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