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At 15, She Underwent a Double Mastectomy to Transition to a Boy—Now, Chloe Cole is Sharing Her Journey of Detransition

Explore the journey of Chloe Cole, from her early transition as a transgender minor to her impactful detransition and activism against gender-affirming care for minors. Learn from her personal experiences, the broader cultural debates, and the reactions her stance has provoked.

FedEx Worker Brings Package to Lady With Sick Husband. 20 Stops Later, She Feels a ‘Tug’ to Turn Around, And God Uses Her in...

“I drove off. My heart’s pounding. I do probably 20 more stops and I have to go back… She just broke down.”

Mom Straps Baby in Carseat & Tosses Her Out Second-Story Window Just Seconds Before Taking Her Final Breaths. A True Hero.

The 12-day-old baby was found on a pile of debris still strapped inside of the carseat.

The Silent Marriage Killer More Deadly Than Sex & Money—I Wasn’t Ready for This…

But having unmet expectations isn’t just a marriage problem. It’s a life problem.

It doesn’t matter whether you’re single, married, working, unemployed, old, young or [insert demographic here]. Having unmet expectations is lethal to everyone. No one is immune.

So…what’s the solution?

I’m a math guy. I ‘heart’ equations. I love crunching numbers and thoroughly enjoyed algebra and calculus in high school (although I probably couldn’t do a calculus problem to save my life now). So I came across an equation.

EXPECTATION – OBSERVATION = FRUSTRATION

Here’s what that means. Below are two hypothetical situations played out…

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Derek lives in Portland, Oregon with his beautiful wife, Tessa, and daughter, Journey. In addition to his love for music, exploring and lots of strong coffee, Derek seeks to create better stories and experiences for people and leaders. Read more of his work at derekharvey.me.

At 15, She Underwent a Double Mastectomy to Transition to a Boy—Now, Chloe Cole is Sharing Her Journey of Detransition

Explore the journey of Chloe Cole, from her early transition as a transgender minor to her impactful detransition and activism against gender-affirming care for minors. Learn from her personal experiences, the broader cultural debates, and the reactions her stance has provoked.

FedEx Worker Brings Package to Lady With Sick Husband. 20 Stops Later, She Feels a ‘Tug’ to Turn Around, And God Uses Her in...

“I drove off. My heart’s pounding. I do probably 20 more stops and I have to go back… She just broke down.”

Mom Straps Baby in Carseat & Tosses Her Out Second-Story Window Just Seconds Before Taking Her Final Breaths. A True Hero.

The 12-day-old baby was found on a pile of debris still strapped inside of the carseat.