This hospice nurse shares a fourth phenomenon of the death process
Julie mentions that this might be one of her favorite phenomena when someone is dying. She cannot explain how it happens, but many of her patients choose when they die. Some wait until when they are ready. Others have intentionally chosen a day.
It might be that a grandmother is waiting for a family member to arrive and say goodbye. Or, a father waits until all of his kids are gathered in the same room. There are also instances when a person dies when their loved one steps out of the room for just a moment.
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Viewers shared their own experiences with this phenomenon.
“My mom picked the date (weeks before) and then passed away when my sister and I left the room for 5 minutes.”
“my grandmother said she wanted one last Christmas dinner she ate a bite of each thing on her plate said im going and passed at the table”
“Family said goodbye to my mom except for my oldest daughter who was coming from out of town. She got there,said goodbye, & my mom passed 15 min. later”
“My father passed 25 years ago, October 28, 1997. My father & I were NOT close. Nevertheless, after a 5 days vigil with all of my siblings & my mum, the siblings left for the night, my mum went to get coffee & I was alone with him. He passed. I want to understand it. I don’t.”