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“Our Romance Dies—All the Time”: I Never Fell in Love With My Husband

From our first date to getting engaged, to having a baby and walking down the aisle, my life has been forever changed because of my husband.

Recently, I was looking at him thinking about how much I loved him and wondered how different my life would be without him. I started thinking about where our love story began and I tried to recall the day I knew I fell in love with him. I began to realize there really wasn’t a precise moment where I said to myself, “I’m falling in love with this man.”

I guess it’s because I never fell in love with my husband.

Maybe I’m thinking too outside of the box. But when I think of falling in love I think of being swept off of my feet with never-ending butterflies and believing he is perfect in every way. I think of an undying romance and a relationship full of passion that I never knew existed. When I think of falling in love, I think of feeling vulnerable; of being scared that my heart is in his hands and he could break it if he chooses to. That’s falling in love.

I never felt this way with my husband.

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t have the butterflies in the beginning. I did and I still get them from time to time, four years later. But I know that the butterflies in my stomach will come and go. I know that we sometimes get stuck in a routine and often are caught up in this thing called life. The butterflies won’t always be there. I know we still love each other more and more every day because we chose each other. I don’t have unrealistic expectations in my marriage. Our marriage isn’t a love song, a book inspired by Nicholas Sparks or one a little girl dreams of. Our marriage is real. He doesn’t have to sweep me off my feet. I’ll be happy if he sweeps the floor. I guess I find love in the simplest forms.

I know he’s not perfect. As we’ve grown together I’ve seen him at his highs and I’ve seen him at his lows. Nothing makes me love him more than the times he opens up to me and shows me weakness. The times where he needs to find strength in me and needs me to let him know everything is going to be okay. Nothing is more attractive to me than my husband being exhausted from a hard day at work but still lying next to me at night fighting his sleep to ask about my day. In these moments I know I’ve found love.

Our romance dies. All the time. I mean sometimes our romance doesn’t just die, it’s tortured before a slow and painful death. It isn’t candlelit dinners and kissing in the rain. Our marriage is trying to have dinner on the table by 6:00 and more times than I’d like to admit, that dinner is a frozen pizza. It’s reading bedtime stories to our little girl and looking at each other with pure joy because we made this miracle. Our kind of romance is a quick beer at the local bar and a movie before rushing to the babysitter afterward to pick up our daughter. In these not so romantic moments, I find love.

Between a job, a toddler, a house to take care of, dinner to be made and life getting in the way, we don’t always have the energy to have a marriage full of passion. Most days it’s just not realistic for us and that’s okay. Despite being tired, I still smile at night because I am lying next to my best friend. Tomorrow will likely be another crazy day and we will do it all over again. Our marriage isn’t an amazing love story. We are simply two people who chose to do life together. Among the chaos, I often stop to look at him and I still see nothing but love.

Jonna Miller
Jonna Millerhttp://thebluntblonde.com
The Blunt Blonde is a wife, mom and puppy chow addict who often goes by the name of Jonna. She grew up in Smalltown Indiana where she spends her free time telling bad jokes and creating awkward situations.

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