I am an assistant principal in a middle school (grades 6-8). When I have to search a student's cell phone, I often get sick to my stomach at what I find. It gets worse and worse every year.
What I said was my way of trying to get her to notice my contribution to our marriage. As a father, I often feel like I'm really breaking the mold because I do pitch in around the house.
The truth we must realize is no one marries the “right” person. There is no such thing as the “right” person in reality. This is only an illusion fed to us by pop songs and Hollywood love stories.