Relationships

10 Ways to Show a Woman You Care

1. Keep your promises.

If you make her a promise, then make sure to follow through with flying colors. Rarely keeping big promises isn’t nearly as significant as keeping your end of the deal on day-to-day things. Let her know she can trust you even when things get a little tough.

2. Show her you appreciate her. 

I can’t think of any woman who doesn’t like to be told that she is appreciated. Write her a thank-you card for the little things she does. Be specific; it’ll let her know you took notice.

3. Tell her that she’s beautiful.

In a world filled with advertisements and pins showcasing the world’s definition of beauty, it’s always a good idea to remind your lady that you think she is beautiful. Not only will this give her peace in your feelings toward her, but it will also remind her that you see her beauty if even she doesn’t.

4. Leave her sweet notes and letters.

I’ve realized that the element of surprise holds a lot of weight amidst any relationship. Writing letters and notes “just because” is always a fun way to showcase your feelings on a daily basis.

5. Constantly pursue her. 

Don’t give up pursuit just because you’ve got some time underneath your belt. The relationships that will stand the test of time are the one that are founded on the idea of constant pursuit. Don’t let routine or comfort get in the way of things being fun, exciting and new.

6. Put effort into date nights.

Don’t let date nights become stale and boring. Put effort into everything that you plan, and that includes simple trips to the movies or dinner. Plan a scavenger hunt, game night or even something simple as ordering a nice dessert ahead of time. Make date night romantic and fun!

7. Surprise her with a gift or flowers.

Is there something your lady has been talking about wanting lately? This is the perfect opportunity to let her know you are listening when she talks. Go out to the local department store and get her those cute high-heels or bunch of red roses for the living-room vase.

8. Listen to her.

Nothing says “I love you” like a man who listens to his lady. Take time to hear her when she talks. Whether it be about her problems or successes, taking time to sit and listen will speak volumes to her. Ask questions. Engage actively instead of listening passively.

9. Do things without her asking. 

Get her car washed, vacuumed or even make her dinner. Do something without her having to ask you. Take initiative to plan things on your own accord, and show your lady that you are willing to take time out of your day for her.

10. Get to know her friends family. 

Truly care about your lady? Then get to know the people she claims are closest to her. If you make an effort to get to know your lady’s friends and family members, it will show her that you are invested and willing to reach outside your comfort zone on her behalf.

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What else can you do to show a woman you care? Leave a comment below. 

Jarrid Wilson
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Jarrid Wilson is a husband to Juli, Dad to Finch, Pastor, Author, Blogger, Founder of Cause Roast. Helping people live a better story. Check out more from Jarrid on his blog.

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