So many of my readers send me messages with the golden question: Should I get back together with him? Well, I’m happy to tell you about my boyfriend and when God broke us up and brought us back together.
While I know that there isn’t one cookie cutter answer for this question, I want to share a story and some advice that helped me through the last breakup I ever walked through in hopes of shedding some light on this question…and I hope it’ll help you discern the best decision, too.
One September day, I decided to join my friends for a Saturday tailgate at the very last minute. Even though I had work to do, it was a big game and didn’t I want to miss out.
I dug through my bottom drawer to find my high-waisted denim shorts, reached for my new cream and crimson tank top, tossed them onto the unmade bed, and then hopped in the shower.
An hour later, I put the finishing touches of mascara on each eyelash as my roommates called up the stairs, “J, are you almost ready?!”
I threw on the outfit I had picked out and stood in front of the mirror, spending far too much time analyzing if it made me look ‘fat’. They called for me again. I gave it up, grabbed my things, and ran out the door.