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1 ½ Years After My Wedding, I Saw Marriage Wasn’t for Me—When I Looked at my Wife, I Knew My Dad Was Right

"The nearer Kim and I approached the decision to marry, the more I was filled with a paralyzing fear. Was I ready? Was I making the right choice? Was Kim the right person to marry? Would she make me happy? Then, one fateful night..."

“I Looked Over to His Side of the Bed. He Wasn’t There. I Knew He Wouldn’t Be There, But for the First Time, It...

"I looked back to the bed. Still empty. And then it happened. I fell to my knees, and then to my back. It came from up from my gut. I could almost physically feel it moving to the top of my abdomen, to my chest, into my neck and then my head. I cannot describe the pain."

Mom Dies Giving Birth & Dad Lays Baby on Her Chest—10 Minutes Later, He Hears the Scream…

"You are so unbelievably excited that your child is born…and in the next moment you believe you’ll have to say farewell to your wife forever. It was like being numbed."

‘My abuser is here today’: Miss Kansas Uses Interview Portion of Pageant to Call Out Abuser Before Being Crowned

As Miss Kansas, Smith has dubbed her platform “Respect Reclaimed.” Through this initiative, she aims to educate young men and women about healthy relationships and to provide support for those affected by domestic violence. Smith’s mission is to turn her pain into purpose, using her platform to unify and uplift others.

“I took back my power—not just for myself, but for my dreams and everyone watching and listening,” Smith wrote on Instagram. “This isn’t about shunning others; it’s about turning our pain into purpose and channeling it in a way that unifies and uplifts.”

A History of Advocacy

Alexis Smith’s advocacy is particularly significant in the context of recent events within the pageant community. Earlier this year, a former Miss USA and a former Miss Teen USA stepped down due to undisclosed misconduct allegations. These incidents have highlighted the need for accountability and integrity within the pageant system.

By speaking out against domestic abuse, Smith is setting a powerful example for future pageant contestants and for the wider community. Her commitment to using her platform for good, despite personal risk, underscores the true potential of pageant titles to effect positive change.

Moving Forward with “Respect Reclaimed”

As she embraces her new role as Miss Kansas, Smith is eager to share her story and advocate for change. Her platform, “Respect Reclaimed,” focuses on promoting healthy relationships and providing resources for those affected by domestic violence. Smith plans to engage with communities across Kansas, spreading her message of hope and resilience.

In her interview with KSN, Smith expressed her excitement about the future. “I’m incredibly excited to be able to share my story with young men and women,” she said. By sharing her experiences, Smith hopes to inspire others to speak out and seek help.

A New Chapter for Miss Kansas

As Alexis Smith takes on her new role representing as Miss Kansas, and sets her sights on the Miss America competition in January, the cardiothoracic ICU nurse is ready to take on toxic relationships and advocate for those in her community.

Bri Lamm
Bri Lamm
Bri is an outgoing introvert with a heart that beats for adventure. She lives to serve the Lord, experience the world, and eat macaroni and cheese in between capturing life’s greatest moments on one of her favorite cameras.

1 ½ Years After My Wedding, I Saw Marriage Wasn’t for Me—When I Looked at my Wife, I Knew My Dad Was Right

"The nearer Kim and I approached the decision to marry, the more I was filled with a paralyzing fear. Was I ready? Was I making the right choice? Was Kim the right person to marry? Would she make me happy? Then, one fateful night..."

“I Looked Over to His Side of the Bed. He Wasn’t There. I Knew He Wouldn’t Be There, But for the First Time, It...

"I looked back to the bed. Still empty. And then it happened. I fell to my knees, and then to my back. It came from up from my gut. I could almost physically feel it moving to the top of my abdomen, to my chest, into my neck and then my head. I cannot describe the pain."

Mom Dies Giving Birth & Dad Lays Baby on Her Chest—10 Minutes Later, He Hears the Scream…

"You are so unbelievably excited that your child is born…and in the next moment you believe you’ll have to say farewell to your wife forever. It was like being numbed."