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You’re Right, Fellow Target Shopper, She Is Too Big

“You are a little too big to be sitting in there don’t you think?”

So said the elderly woman at Target, with a chuckle and a wink, to my Isla as she sat with her knees grazing her chest in the shopping cart. I was tired. My body, my spirit, tired. The summer has been so long. I had zero make-up on but I had brushed my teeth, put a cap on to hide my unkempt hair and managed sufficient deodorant swipes so I was totally winning the day in my opinion. I was heaving the suburban of all shopping carts around Target (you know, the one with the two large red seats) because apparently, school supplies don’t buy themselves. June and Major sat in the front seats and Isla was curled up in the actual cart.

The elderly woman didn’t have an ounce of bad intention in her tone. She had no snarky face or attitude. She was simply making an observation out loud that perhaps was best kept in her thoughts.

Isla giggled. I smiled and said softly, “Yeah. Sometimes autism is a little too big for all of us.”

If I had been more lucid, well-rested, I would have shared more, but the ICEES were running low and the popcorn was being consumed as if I hadn’t fed my children in three days so momma had to keep moving.

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As I drove home all three of my children fell asleep from the heat and the carbs so I pulled over and wrote what was in my heart.

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You are right, fellow Target shopper.

Isla is too big.

At eleven years old and five feet tall she is too big to be sitting in a shopping cart.

She is too big for me to be brushing her teeth.

She is too big for me to be bathing her rapidly maturing body each evening.

She is too big for me to be wiping her after each bowel movement.

She is too big to be having accidents because she was too distracted for just a few minutes too long to make it to the bathroom.

She is too big to have to be sending extra clothes to school each day.

She is too big to not know her colors or numbers or letters.

She is too big to not be able to read or write.

She is too big to be playing with toddler toys and preferring sippy cups.

She is too big to be eating with her hands.

She is too big to be drooling.

She is too big to be completely unable to function physically when even just slightly tired.

Isla is too big and many times that makes me so sad it physically hurts me.

Dr. Lisa Peña
Dr. Lisa Peña
Dr. Lisa Peña is a Today Show Parenting Team contributor and the founder and president of the non profit The M.o.C.h.A.(TM) Tribe which stands for (M)oms (o)f (C)hildren that (h)ave (A)utism. She is the author behind The M.o.C.h.A. Tribe Diaries which is a website/blog devoted to squashing the idea that autism has a single story and author of “Waiting for the Light Bulb” available on Amazon. Dr. Peña is also the director of an annual wellness retreat for mothers with special needs children called The Ultimate M.o.C.h.A. Session. She is a rookie author but a professional mother of a child with an incredibly unique subset of autism called, pathological demand avoidance (PDA). Dr. Peña is a proud coach’s wife, a clinical pharmacist, passionate public speaker and a busy mom of three who happily resides in South Padre Island, TX.

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