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“Our Daughter Is Defective. They Will Blame This on Me… My Heart Shattered into A Million Pieces”

Despite how beautiful the below black-and-white image of my daughter may be from a viewing standpoint, its meaning is much darker, and not so pretty.

After her father left us when learning of her diagnosis at birth, I often wondered how the rest of the world would accept her Down syndrome diagnosis after her own flesh and blood CHOSE not to.

The thing I purposefully left out of my letter to my daughter was what her father called her after she was born. It is one of my most painful memories of our journey. He called her a word I wish I could unhear… his exact words were, “Stephanie, our daughter is defective.” His tone was as if he were spelling it out for me because I wasn’t getting it. My heart shattered into pieces as he continued to reminisce about how he and his friends in school used to make fun of people with Down syndrome and scream across the playground calling them the “R” word. He continued to state, “People will look at Hannah and feel sorry for us, and then they will blame this on me.” To feel as if there is “blame” at all, would imply that something or someone is a mistake, and I knew that my beautiful daughter was NOT a mistake. He couldn’t seem to get past how he thought she would make him look. He somehow selfishly made her diagnosis about himself.


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Within minutes of giving birth to my daughter, and just staring at her being in awe of her beauty and thanking God for my baby, the Lord taught me in a millisecond what unconditional love was. But that precious moment was abruptly interrupted by one of the nurses in the room. She came over beside me and scolded me for refusing the testing I was offered earlier in my pregnancy — as if bringing a ‘child like mine’ into this world was somehow an inconvenience to her.

I could not believe what I was hearing. Not quite the welcome wagon you’d imagine. I just wanted to hold and love on my daughter.


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So you can imagine why I pictured Hannah in a darkened world of isolation where people label her like they do boxes because that’s EXACTLY what happened within the moments following her birth. I was immediately introduced to a world I never fathomed existed. One in which I’d have to fight for her and her friends just to have basic rights like everyone else. Rights that every HUMAN (because that’s what she is) should have, and be privy too despite how many chromosomes you have.


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Families with children of all abilities fight invisible wars every day. These parents are the ‘invisible heroes’ of society trying to raise awareness to create a future in which their children are accepted for who they are instead of what others label them to be. I say “invisible” because we may be seen while being passed on the street, but our scars from the battles we take on are never truly evident by onlookers who don’t share the same bubbled world that we do. These are wars that most will never see or understand as I didn’t until my sweet girl came into this world — until I was made AWARE.

Stephanie Mullowney
Stephanie Mullowney
To become a globally published photographer only days after opening her business is an incredible feat in itself. But it’s the unbelievable story leading up to Stephanie’s International recognition that makes her portraiture so special and sought after. She and her newborn daughter were abandoned and left virtually homeless only 5 days after her baby was diagnosed with Down Syndrome. Since then, Stephanie has made it her mission to use the platform of photography to capture the hearts of her subjects teaching the world to love like Jesus does with her universal mantra, “Look with your eyes, but see with your heart.” You can find her global publishings, media features, and her amazing testimony at www.paperdollsphotography.com. Stephanie’s home base is in Nashville, T.N. but her extensive portfolio includes clients from all over the U.S. of ALL abilities, colors, shapes and sizes. You will also find Movie, Music, Reality Show, and Pro Athlete Celebrities among her Collections. Her daughter and inspiration, Hannah Grace, is an Ambassador for the global non-profit Nothing Down, a brand rep for Littlest Warrior apparel, and huge part of her local Down Syndrome Community at DSAMT. Hannah's face has been seen in dozens of media and TV features across the globe as she advocates for others like her by just being herself. Inclusion Matters. "Love like Jesus-Advocate like the Devil" -Stephanie Mullowney. See more from Stephanie on her website or connect with her on Facebook.

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