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“I Am Looking at 3 Dead Babies. How Is This God’s Plan?”

Kayla Flockhart Green and her husband had struggled with infertility for four long years before they were blessed with the miracle of being pregnant with quadruplets.

It was a Valentine’s surprise like no other, and Kayla posted the most adorable photos on Facebook proudly boasting that she had FIVE Valentines.


Fantastic Four: Green Quadruplets

“God gave us a baby for every year of infertility that we experienced,” she wrote. “He blessed us exceedingly, abundantly above all we could ask or think. They’re growing and are doing so well.”


Fantastic Four: Green Quadruplets

However, months later, what Kayla thought would be her biggest miracle turned into her worst nightmare when she lost three of the four precious babies the Lord had blessed her with. She was totally heartbroken — and pain like she had never experienced shot through every square inch of her mind, body, and soul.

Like many of us do in tragedy, it was in this moment that Kayla cried, “Why God, WHY?!”…but unlike most, she had the courage to trust that this painful loss was for her good and His glory.

Kelsey Straeter
Kelsey Straeter
Kelsey is an editor at Outreach. She’s passionate about fear fighting, freedom writing, and the pursuit of excellence in the name of crucifying perfectionism. Glitter is her favorite color, 2nd only to pink, and 3rd only to pink glitter.

20 Things My Divorce Taught Me About Marriage

Years ago, a newly divorced Gerald Rogers took to Facebook to reflect on what he wishes he would have known before it was too late. He admits there were a lot of things he could have done differently to save his marriage, and he openly shared the self-effacing letter in the most humble and real way.

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