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Hero 10-Year-Old Saves Toddler Sister From Drowning in Dramatic Video

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A 10-year-old from Georgia is being hailed a hero this week after her quick thinking saved her toddler sister from drowning.

Jayla Dallis (10) and her little sister, [3]-year-old Kali Dallis, were swimming at the pool of the Chamblee apartment complex on May 15.

Surveillance footage from the apartment complex shows Kali walking into the shallow end of the pool with an inflatable device around her waist. As she jumped off of one of the top steps, the momentum put her head-first into the water, causing her to body to be stuck upside down in the inner tube.

In the video, Kali is able to escape the inner tube, but the water was too deep.

Jayla was in the deeper end of the swimming pool when Kali first went under. When she realized her little sister was under the water, drowning, she raced into the swimming pool to pull her out.

“She was, like heavy, so I had to pull her by her hair, and then I grabbed her by her waist and pulled her up,” Jayla told Good Morning America.

Once pulled from the pool, the girls’ aunt along with a staff member of the apartment complex frantically administered CPR, while another witness called 911.

Police sergeant, Ed Lyons, received the call and rushed to the scene. The father of a little girl himself, Lyons says he felt particularly connected to the case.

“I saw my little girl laying there, same kind of little bathing suit she wears,” Lyons told WAFB-9. “Same little hair pulled up in a little bun up top. You know you kind of have to push past that and do what you’re trained to do.”

Drowning is the leading cause of death in children ages one to four

The most harrowing part of those statistics is that it’s completely preventable.

According to new guidelines from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), children should learn to swim at the age of one.

“Research has found that swim lessons are beneficial for children starting around age 1, and may lower drowning rates”, said Dr. Linda Quan, a co-author of the policy statement.

“Learning to swim is a great family activity,” she says. “Families can talk with their pediatrician about whether their child is developmentally ready for swim lessons, and then look for a program that has experienced, well-trained instructors. Ideally, programs should teach ‘water competency’ too — the ability to get out of the water if your child ends up in the water unexpectedly.”

Of course, even the best swim lessons cannot “drown-proof” a child. The AAP recommends parents take steps to make a child’s environment safer — especially around any sort of water, from swimming pools to bathtubs, as a toddler can drown in less than a minute.

Experts suggest that if a child is not fully able to swim and is in the pool with an inflatable device, the parent or guardian also needs to be in the pool within an arm’s reach from the child.

As for Kali, who was rushed to the emergency room in critical condition, it’s her big sister’s quick rescue that led her to a full recovery. The toddler spent two weeks in the hospital before being released Friday.

The girls’ mother, Daneshia Dallis, says she feels incredibly lucky to be able to take her daughter home.

“I’m fortunate to get to take my baby home after two weeks,” she said.

Daneshia, who wasn’t at the pool that day, said she got a call from her sister to come to the hospital’s ICU. It was there that she watched the surveillance footage of her older daughter’s heroic actions. She says she knows Kali may not be alive today if it weren’t for Jayla’s quick response. The 10-year-old even started performing CPR before anyone else reached Kali — which she says she learned on TV.

“As a 10-year-old, to think about all of that in a traumatic situation, I’m so proud of her, I don’t even know what to do,” Daneshia said.

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My Toddler Drowned on Our Family Vacation–Here’s What I Want You to Know

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We were never supposed to leave our beach vacation early to plan a funeral for our 3-year-old son. And, yet, within the course of one week, we had driven to the beach, returned without him, and held his funeral.

Do you know that drowning is the leading cause of death in children ages 1-4 and the second leading cause in ages 1-14? Do you know that 69 [percent] of children who drown are not expected to be swimming, yet they are found in water? Do you know that a child can drown in less than one minute?

Unfortunately, I know these facts all too well.

On June 10, 2018, my 3-year-old son, Levi, drowned while on vacation in Fort Morgan, AL.

Photo: Nicole Hughes

There is a misconception that drowning only happens when you are swimming. But, drowning also happens when you are 200 feet away from a pool, upstairs, eating Cheetos, wearing your neon yellow crab-hunting shirt, when you leave your mom’s side, even though you are usually Velcro-ed to her. Drowning isn’t splashing and yelling. It is silent, and it takes SECONDS.

I have always taken water safety seriously. In each of the pictures I have of my son’s final day, he is wearing a life jacket. Flying a kite with his dad? Life jacket. Eating M&M’s in a beach chair? Life jacket.

How could I have known that every parent’s worst nightmare would be my reality? It happened so quickly. I don’t know how Levi got away from us as we were cleaning up from dinner, or what lured him to go outside alone. I was the one who found him, face down, in the deep end. Just moments before this horrific discovery, I split a brownie with him. I still had the other half of the brownie in my mouth when I jumped into the pool to grab my son. Mere moments, seconds.

We had six physicians on our trip, including my own husband. If Levi could have been saved by desperation, skill, and love, he would still be here. Yet, how did I not fully realize just how quickly a child can drown? They initiated CPR immediately, even intubated him before the ambulance arrived. But Levi could not be saved, even with this immediate response.

‘From Darkness Into Light’: Real-Life Teen Witch Who ‘Should Be Dead’ Went From Casting Spells to Worshipping Jesus

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Sarah Anne Sumpolec once found herself enraptured by incantations, Tarot cards, and casting spells —until an encounter with Jesus transformed her perspective.

Decades later, she’s now a devout Christian who shares her experience as a former real-life teenage witch to help people see God’s power to change lives and perspectives. Her harrowing story of engaging the spirit world and nearly losing her life is nothing short of deeply compelling.

The Beginnings of Witchcraft

Sumpolec recently told “The Playing With Fire Podcast” she grew up a “nomad” with her father frequently moving her family around; at moments, they faced near-homelessness.

But when she moved to a house in Delaware at age 13, something seemed different.

“My dad had said that we were going to stay, which, of course, was a big deal,” she said, recalling her hope the home would become a permanent place of residence.

The dwelling, which belonged to a former governor of the state, surprised Sumpolec, as she wondered as a child how her family could so rapidly go from financially struggling to living in such a great place.

“My dad, from the beginning of introducing us to that house … he was insinuating that this was a special house,” she said. “He hinted at it all along the way, and then when we moved there, he was like, ‘You know this house is haunted,’ and, of course, he tells me this in excitement.”

Sumpolec said her father found the prospects of a haunting “awesome.” Considering how much she looked up to him and wanted to connect with him, she said she “just went with it.”

A ‘Turning Point’

“Arriving there was very much a turning point in a lot of ways,” she recalled of the move into the home. “That was the first time he really ever introduced the supernatural or his interest in the supernatural.”

While Sumpolec’s dad was “cagey” about the details surrounding the home, the mystery and intrigue piqued her curiosity and further drew her in. Thirsting for a deeper connection with her father, she became increasingly intrigued by this otherworldly “worship.”

Then, when her dad gave her a book on witchcraft, proverbial gasoline was tossed on the fires of that rabid interest.

“My dad introduced me to it very specifically through a book that he handed me when I started asking more questions,” Sumpolec said. “It was a very old book.”

Soon Sumpolec was diving into that book and consuming other New Age texts, “voraciously reading” anything she could get her hands on. Witchcraft suddenly became the connective point she had always wanted — something that would draw her closer to her dad.

And strange events inside the home only added to that connection.

The more Sumpolec asked, the more her dad engaged, and the more he engaged, the closer she felt to him. Over time, her father told her witchcraft is “who we are as a family,” indicating it was deeply embedded in the familial fabric.

That revelation suddenly clothed Sumpolec with a newfound identity of sorts.

“I really felt like I had … like opened up this key of something that I was meant to do, and identity is huge, especially when you’re a teenager,” she said. “I had an entire altar set up in my bedroom.”

Sumpolec, who considered herself a “good witch” and practiced so-called “white magic,” would often cast spells.

“Everything in witchcraft is a truth from God, perverted,” she said. “Satan doesn’t have any new ideas; he takes truth and twists it.”

Spirit Guides and the Roots of Chaos

Over time, this apparently enrapturing experience started to evolve into something else. While it “started out great,” soon Sumpolec’s relationship with her father began to unravel, as did her family circumstances.

“There was nothing ever scary about it for a long time until it changed, and that is this is the biggest thing that I wish I could communicate on a grander scale to, especially teenagers … that the enemy is all about seduction,” she said. “He doesn’t come in with this big evil intention … it’s a slow luring in, and it’s like, ‘Oh, look at this power.’”

Over time, Sumpolec said, playing with fire birthed consequences; eventually, it all “turned on its head.”

“[There were] all these spirits that I thought I was messing with that I thought were good and that were guiding me,” she said.

But her communication with these spirits soon turned sinister, sending her on a diabolical path that could have ended her life.

‘The Most Terrible Moment of My Life’

Everything came to a head when her father, also in crisis, reportedly began using drugs. Substances suddenly clouded the bond they built — and things turned ugly.

One night, her dad — in a fit of rage, confused, and not realizing who she was — allegedly pointed a gun at her in a potentially deadly showdown.

“It was the most terrible moment of my life,” she said. “He had, like, three guns with him at the time, and my mother had left with my younger sister to take her somewhere safer but had left me there.”

Sumpolec’s father luckily never pulled the trigger, but the event changed everything and likely played a role in her suicidal inclinations that soon followed.

“[It] shattered my trust in him,” she said, noting how the incident also drove her deeper into witchcraft. “I was lost … but because I had this altar in my room and the witchcraft stuff, I was like, ‘OK, you know, I’m gonna just dig down here.’”

4th Grader Comes Home With Disturbing News— Mom Realizes Her “Worst Nightmare” Is Coming True: “I’m Raising a Bully”

I will never forget the day my daughter told me that Bethany, a girl in her 4th grade class, was annoying her. I was my worst nightmare coming true.

“What is she doing to you?” I questioned, instinctively protective.

“She’s following me around on the playground and sitting by me at lunch!” she quipped, as if that would sum things right up and get me squarely on her side of the matter.

“You mean she’s trying to be friends with you?” I asked incredulously.

I realized immediately that I had a problem on my hands. I was raising my own worst nightmare. Smack dab in the middle of my brood of five kids, was a charismatic, sassy, leggy, blonde, dance-y, athletic girl oozing confidence … and apparently annoyance, directed toward another little girl that wasn’t lucky enough to be her. Inconveniently for my daughter, her own mother WAS Bethany in grade school. Freckled of face and frizzy of hair, I was an Army brat, always the new girl clamoring for a friend, drawn to the natural confidence of girls like my daughter. This conversation found me vacillating between heartache and fury, but one thing I knew for sure: Mama was about to put her money where her mouth had been all these years, and stop my worst nightmare right in it’s tracks.

The battle of two very strong wills ensued at my home the next morning. It wasn’t pretty, but I prevailed. My daughter attended a private Catholic grade school, where on any given day, she and a handful of her cohorts ruled the roost. One quick phone call to Bethany’s mother that same evening confirmed my worst fears. My daughter and her posse were using everything short of a can of “Cling Free” to rid themselves of the annoying Bethany.

I’m sure there are parents out there who will say I overreacted. But, I firmly believe we’ve got to start to address our country’s bullying epidemic right at the heart; by re-defining bullying at its very core. To me, the rejection and complete lack of interest my daughter and her “clique” displayed toward Bethany was the beginning of a subtle type of bullying. It is true (confirmed to me by Bethany’s mom and teachers), that there was no overt unkindness or name-calling, etc., just rejection; a complete lack of interest in someone they wrongly concluded had nothing to offer them. After experiencing childhood myself and raising five of my own, I’ve been on every side of the bullying social dynamic, and I am convinced this is where it begins. It would be my worst nightmare to know that I raised a bully, and I believe it all starts with a casual assessment and quick dismissal of an outsider.

We would serve our children well, in my opinion, if we had a frank conversation with them about Social Darwinism and what motivates human beings to accept and reject others. It happens at every age and stage of life, race, creed and religion. It has its roots in our own fears of rejection and lack of confidence. Everyone is jockeying for their own spot on the Social Food Chain. I feel like I have experienced demonstrable success with my children by tabling this dynamic right out in the open. Parents need to call it by name, speak it out loud, shine a bright light in its ugly face. We need to admit to our children that we too experience this, even as adults. Of course it’s tempting to ‘curry favor’ and ‘suck-up’ to the individual a rung of two above you on the Social Ladder, but every single human being deserves our attention and utmost respect. In spite of this, we have to constantly remind our children and ourselves that everyone can bring unexpected and unanticipated value to our lives. But we have to let them.

It’s simply not enough to instruct your children to “Be Nice!” You’ve got to be more specific than that. Kids think if they aren’t being outright unkind, they are being nice. We know better. Connect the ugly dots. Explain the Darwinistic social survival instinct that’s often motivating and guiding their impulses. I promise you, they can handle it. They already see it on some level anyway. They just need YOU to give it a voice and re-direction.

13 Semi-Truck Drivers Join Forces With Police to Save Suicidal Man From Jumping off Bridge

If you were driving on the highway and came upon 13 semi-trucks blocking your way, you would likely be confused and possibly unhappy. That is, until you learned that these 13 truck drivers blocked the highway to save a man’s life.

A Man Threatens to Take His Own Life

Recently, in the early hours of a Tuesday morning in Detroit, Michigan, a man was reported to be on an overpass and threatening to jump in order to take his own life. Reportedly, the man was struggling with issues in his family that led him to this place of hopelessness.

The Michigan State Police were alerted by a phone call about someone threatening suicide, and they found the man on an overpass over Interstate 696.

The police came up with a surprising and creative plan. “We always want to make sure that people realize there are so many other options,” said Lt. Michael Shaw.

And they did that, with the help of several truck drivers.

The Truck Drivers Blocked the Highway

Along with talking to the man and trying to calm him, the Michigan State Police began to ask semi-trailer truck drivers for help. The flagged down these drivers on the highway and began organizing them underneath the bridge so as to form a “safety net,” if the man were to jump.

That’s why the truck drivers blocked the highway. They were working together with state troopers and other local officials to show the man that people are for him.

Lt. Shaw explaining the tactic they took said, “They start to grab semi drivers and troopers standing there were able to line these semi-trucks underneath that overpass. So it’s kind of like a safety net to make sure if he moved anywhere on that overpass, there was a semi there.”

A photo was taken to show the truckers and police working together. Watch news coverage of the event here:

Apparently, this wasn’t the first time the Michigan State Police asked for help from truck drivers…

Elementary School Puts Boy in a Box as Punishment for More Than a Month

Some people refer to schools as kids’ second homes because of how much time they spend there. As a “second home,” children learn more than just reading and math; they learn how to interact with others, how to regulate emotion and behaviors, and what healthy relationships look like with both peers and authority. So if a school uses harsh punishment, this impacts the child more than just in that moment—it can impact the child for a lifetime, in terms of how they view authority, the identity they develop, and what behavior is “normal” in relationships. That’s why many were appalled upon learning about one elementary school located about 30 minutes outside St. Louis, in Illinois, that put a boy in a box as punishment every day for more than a month before the mother found out.

The School that Put a Boy in a Box as Punishment

In 2016, Melody Haller enrolled her son in the second grade at Alhambra Elementary School, located in Alhambra, Illinois. Yet, after three months of her eight-year-old child, she learned the school was enforcing harsh punishment on her son. According to the mom, initially, the child was being punished for talking too much to his classmates. The boy’s desk was moved away from the other children’s desks, and the teacher had put a cardboard box around him to cut him off from other classmates, and to keep him from talking.

Haller said, “A box has been put around him where he can see no students, no teacher, only the board.”

The child was put in a box like this for eight hours a day more than a month before his mother found out, but that was not all.

Haller’s son also was required to finish his lunch in the principal’s office, and his privileges to go to recess were sometimes revoked. The boy told his mother that the principal had also had him clean the water fountains and some of the walls in the school as a punishment instead of going to recess.

Find out more about the story and see photos of the box on this news report out of St. Louis:

Read on to find out how the mom found out this was happening…

“I Knew I Had To Do Something to Shock Him” —Mom Calls Police on 10-Yr-old Son, Teaches Lesson in Tough Love

Meet Chiquita Hill, the Columbus, Georgia mom who takes her child’s misbehavior seriously, and enacts tough confidence. This mom called the police on her son to teach him a lesson.

Exactly Why the Mom Called the Police on Her Son

Last month, 10-year-old Sean was in for a surprise from his 33-year-old single mother, Chiquita Hill. Although this surprise was planned out of love, it would not be a happy surprise for Sean. This mom called the police on her son.

It all started one day when Sean’s teacher paid a visit to Hill’s home. Sean’s classroom teacher explained to Hill that she had seen a disrespectful attitude developing in the 10-year-old boy. The teacher said he had been disrespectful to multiple teachers, as well as to the kids in his class. The teacher was concerned about his misbehavior in school, and she explained that Sean had brushed her off whenever she’d talked to him about not paying attention during lessons.

That visit and conversation with Sean’s teacher concerned and upset her, and she made a plan. The mom called the police on her son.

Hill explained, “I knew I had to do something to shock him.”

Thinking about his future, and hoping to redirect her son’s behavior, Hill called got in touch with the Columbus, Georgia Police Department. She explained to an officer what the teacher had told her, as well as her concerns for his future. She shared that she is a single mom, and she needed some help to nip this problem in the bud.

Hill wasn’t sure whether the police would help her, given the nature of her idea. But after they heard about his entire situation, they decided to work with her on the plan, and use it to encourage Sean to take responsibility for his behavior. According to Hill, they understood where she was coming from and wanted to help her.

3 Ways to Fight for Your Marriage When You’re Tempted to Throw in the Towel

People were placing bets at our wedding. Nobody thought we had a chance. We were young, we weren’t settled in life, and we barely knew each other. But we didn’t care what other people thought. We were starry-eyed and in love.

Reality quickly set in, and we realized we didn’t know what in the world we doing. We found out that marriage was not like dating. After years of ignoring the distance that had crept into our relationship, we began to feel very discouraged. We searched for ways to fill the void, but we ended up feeling more miserable. Because that is what happens when you try to close the giant gaps in your life with things other than God.

Eventually, we realized we were a million miles apart and in real danger of crashing and burning. Our marriage was fragile, and we needed to get serious fast. God deserves all the credit, but we took certain steps that held us together. And now, our marriage is really strong. It makes me want to shout it from the rooftops. God redeems and makes all things new. Even relationships that seem beyond hope.

If you are tempted to throw in the towel, listen to me:

The grass isn’t greener on the other side. The grass is greener where God waters it.

If your heart feels cold, snap out of it. Slap yourself around and get serious. Marriages are failing at a rapid rate, so we need to stay alert. God wants good things for you, so rest in that as you work towards the marriage He has for you.

1. Be stubborn

Decide that you are not going anywhere. You have to start pouring all of your efforts and affections into your spouse, even if you don’t feel in love. You commit and you work towards the end result you want. No wishy-washy. No daydreaming about how your life could be without your spouse. No threatening to leave when you get angry. Do not use the D-Word. Be 100 percent present.

2. Stay teachable

Don’t stop going to church. Don’t avoid your friends. Keep talking to your pastor. For a while, we texted and called our pastor each time the bottom dropped out from under us. It took about six months of this before we saw huge changes. Thankfully, Pastor Nate was willing to walk us through some of our hardest times. We didn’t isolate ourselves, we allowed others to speak into our lives and learned from it. We stayed teachable. It was humbling, but it was crucial for success. Our Christian life was meant to be walked out together, so don’t go it alone.

3. Get grateful

It is so easy to become self-focused. We can quickly feel justified in our demands and complaints. Instead of expecting your spouse to meet your lists of needs, make a list of the things you are thankful for. You will feel so much happier! Once I began to feel grateful for the things Scott said and did, I stopped feeling critical. Marriage consists of two imperfect people, so expecting perfection will work against you.

We knew God was going to write the end of our story, not us. We were clueless when we started out, but who isn’t?  If I had the chance to go back, I’d marry the same guy, and walk this journey all over again with him. I don’t believe in soul mates. I believe in creating something beautiful with your spouse through relentless determination and hard work. I believe true love is sticking by your spouse no matter how you feel. Your heart will trick you, so don’t let it rule you. Put it in its place and view your marriage in the light of scripture — in light of God’s love for you.

20 Things I Learned From My Dad

Whenever Father’s Day rolls around, it’s nice to look back on life and give credit where credit is do. When it comes to confusing analogies, repetitive knock-knock jokes, and embarrassing moment makers, dads usually go under appreciated. When we get past all of that though the reality is our dads teach us so much that they never get credit for. So this list is our way of saying thank you dads, for teaching us what was important before we ever stepped foot in a classroom. There are hundreds of things I learned from my dad but here are 20 of them.

20 Things I Learned From My Dad:

1. The right kind of hug from the right person really can make everything better

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2. You meant just as much to your dad as he meant to you

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3. As long as you don’t block the tv my love for you is unconditional

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4. Be kind, but if you have to, use your game face.

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6. The toy a child can have is a father who gets down on the ground to play with them.

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7. You’re never too cool to teach someone something…

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8. If you’re going to bring someone back to your crib they’d better love you more than life.

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9. Sometimes daddy’s are really just oversized babies.

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10. Men will do anything for you if you have their heart…don’t abuse this

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11. Maturity is knowing when to be silly, not the absence of silliness. A smile is about life being lived right.

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12. Selfies are cute…until you’re a teenager, then it’s debatable.

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13. Everything in life can serve more than one purpose if you’re willing to think outside the box.

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14. You’re never too cool to make a child smile.

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15. The best seat in the house is with the one you love. Then no matter who’s on stage your heart is happy.

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16. Pillows are overrated, dads are not.

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17. Just because they have the title “parent” doesn’t mean they know what they’re doing. You’re going to need grace too!

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18. With a little help and a lot of courage, you can do anything!

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19. Work hard, play harder

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20. You are loved beyond words.

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‘I Have Hope’: Justin Bieber Speaks of Trusting God During Latest Health Scare

Health-wise, it’s been a challenging year for pop singer Justin Bieber and his wife, Hailey. But the outspoken Christian couple has used physical setbacks to share their faith with fans and followers.

Justin Bieber, 28, shared his latest diagnosis on Instagram Friday, revealing he has Ramsay Hunt syndrome. Caused by the virus responsible for chickenpox and shingles, the rare syndrome affects facial nerves and can cause facial paralysis.

In February, Bieber was diagnosed with COVID-19, and in March, Hailey Bieber had a mini-stroke due to a blood clot in her brain. The 25-year-old model later said a small hole in her heart, which has since been repaired, was partly responsible.

Justin Bieber Sidelined by Facial Paralysis 

On June 7, the Grammy-winning singer announced he needed to postpone three upcoming concerts due to “non-COVID related illness.” Without naming it, he said, “My sickness is getting worse,” adding that doctors had ordered him to take a break.

Three days later, Bieber posted an Instagram video captioned: “IMPORTANT PLEASE WATCH. I love you guys and keep me in your prayers.” Looking at the camera, the singer told of being diagnosed with Ramsay Hunt and pointed out the effects: His right eye doesn’t blink, his right nostril doesn’t move, and he can’t smile with the right side of his face.

“There’s full paralysis on this side of my face,” Justin Bieber pointed out. “So for those who are frustrated by my cancellations of the next shows, I’m just physically, obviously, not capable of doing them. This is pretty serious, as you can see.”

He added, “I wish this wasn’t the case, but obviously, my body is telling me I got to slow down. … I’ll be using this time to rest and relax and get back to 100% so that I can do what I was born to do.”

Justin Bieber: Latest Setback Is ‘All for a Reason’

Justin Bieber assured fans he would get better and his face would go back to normal with time. According to health experts, prompt treatment with anti-viral medications helps reduce the risk of long-term complications from Ramsay Hunt, which can include permanent paralysis and hearing loss or deafness. The neurological condition affects an estimated five in every 100,000 Americans—usually older adults.

At the end of Friday’s video, Bieber thanked fans for their patience and prayers. “I have hope, and I trust God, and I trust that this is…all for a reason,” he said. “And I’m not sure what that is right now, but in the meantime, I’m gonna rest. I love you guys. Peace.”

WATCH: Brothers Conner and Cayden Long Leave LeBron James Speechless

Conner and Cayden Long are one special set of brothers. When cerebral palsy threatened to keep Cayden in a wheelchair, his big brother, Connor, stepped in and changed everything for him.

Conner and Cayden Long and Their Road to Victory

At seven years old Conner had noticed that his little brother, Cayden, couldn’t do many of the things he could do. He couldn’t walk or talk, and he couldn’t play sports, which was one of Conner’s great joys in life. One day when Conner noticed a kids’ triathlon in a Nashville Parent Magazine that his mom was looking at, he had an idea. Conner wanted to compete, but he also wanted Cayden to be able to compete; so he asked his mom if Cayden could compete with him. She was hesitant, but he insisted that Conner and Cayden Long were a team.

So Conner and Cayden Long decided to start doing the triathlon together in a way that worked for them. Their parents were in touch with triathlon organizers, and received support from a youth triathlon coach named Mandy Gildersleeve, who guided them as they gathered the equipment that they would need to race together. Their first race was in the summer of 2011. It included 100 yards of swimming, three miles of biking, and half a mile of running. Cayden loved swimming the most and was spotted laughing the whole way. For the bike, their coach Gildersleeve rode beside Conner pulling Cayden in a trailer behind her. But Conner wanted to be the one to pull Cayden; so eventually, after the largest hill, she moved the trailer to Conner’s bike. It took Conner and Cayden Long 43 minutes and 10 seconds to complete their first triathlon together. When they crossed the finish line, Cayden’s fists were pumping in the air!

Starting from their hometown in White House, Tennessee, they travelled all along the East coast, competing in races. They got a lot of attention from the triathlon spectators and inspired many to reach for the determination that Conner and Cayden Long have demonstrated. And participating in this together was very special for them, and it bonded them even more, according to their parents. After some time, Conner took on more; Connor pulled Cayden in a raft during the swim, he pulled him in a trailer for the bike, and he pushed him in a trailer for the run. Now they compete in triathlons as the best team around. That’s how Conner and Cayden Long won the SportsKids of the Year award in 2012 with 14 races already under their belt.

At the SportsKids of the Year ceremony, the crowd was visibly moved. LeBron James spoke after the boys accepted the award at the ceremony, and he was speechless. He was close to tears, and commented that if the story had been any longer, he wouldn’t have been able to hold them in any longer. James shared about his two boys and how they would be watching Conner and Cayden Long and their story to see how they can care for each other, as well. At the time of the award, Conner and Cayden Long’s goal was to race in Hawaii at the Ironman World Championships.

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Where are Conner and Cayden Long Now?

The boys have continued to race together in triathlons and marathons for years. They competed in various races and promoted awareness of families impacted by disability. Conner remarks how sad he is to see when people make comments about his brother. He wants them to know that his brother may look a certain way on the outside, but he can understand what people are saying and he has feelings just like everyone else does. It is clear that Conner has a deep love and appreciation for his brother. Although the page has not been active for several years, the boys do have a Facebook page called The Long Brothers. And in 2016, the brothers’ mom authored a book called Expect a Miracle about Conner and Cayden Long and their family’s journey. The family hoped to set up a foundation to help families with disabilities. So where are Conner and Cayden Long now as they move from teens to adulthood? Comment below, if you can share more about their story!

The Silent Tragedy Affecting Today’s Children

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There is a silent tragedy developing right now, in our homes, and it concerns our most precious jewels — our children. Through my work with hundreds of children and families as an occupational therapist, I have witnessed this tragedy unfolding right in front of my eyes. Our children are in a devastating emotional state! Talk to teachers and professionals who have been working in the field for the last 15 years. You will hear concerns similar to mine. Moreover, in the past 15 years, researchers have been releasing alarming statistics on a sharp and steady increase in mental illness in kids, which is now reaching epidemic proportions:

No, “increased diagnostics alone” is not the answer!

No, “they all are just born like this” is not the answer!

No, “it is all the school system’s fault” is not the answer!

Yes, as painful as it can be to admit, in many cases, WE, parents, are the answer to many of our kids’ struggles!

It is scientifically proven that the brain has the capacity to rewire itself through the environment. Unfortunately, with the environment and parenting styles that we are providing to our children, we are rewiring their brains in a wrong direction and contributing to their challenges in everyday life.

Yes, there are and always have been children who are born with disabilities and despite their parents’ best efforts to provide them with a well-balanced environment and parenting, their children continue to struggle. These are NOT the children I am talking about here.

I am talking about many others whose challenges are greatly shaped by the environmental factors that parents, with their greatest intentions, provide to their children. As I have seen in my practice, the moment parents change their perspective on parenting, these children change and so does mental illness in kids.

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What is wrong?

Today’s children are being deprived of the fundamentals of a healthy childhood, such as:

  • Emotionally available parents
  • Clearly defined limits and guidance
  • Responsibilities
  • Balanced nutrition and adequate sleep
  • Movement and outdoors
  • Creative play, social interaction, opportunities for unstructured times and boredom

Instead, children are being served with: